Love or Money?

A fren of mine texted, sort of telling me she's not happy right now... I will always tell her things to make her at least feel better (i try although i'm not sure it works). If I'm out of words... i'd tell her that God has planned out things this way, maybe to show you something you are not able to see before... those kind of words.. yes, i know i'm not that alim and those words are not suited to be spoken out of my mind as most people think (thanks for being judgemental of me!). But honestly, it is always what i think. When there is no answer or explanation to my doubts or questions... those kind of words are often appropriate enough to make me feel better. I guess it shud work the same for everybody... i hope so.

She always asks me why... although i always have answers to her every other questions, i don't have the answers to this category of questions. So when i don't have the answer i won't answer to make things worse. The question was comparing two different situations (one of it being me). On my part i can answer... but the answer will leave a good impression on me and not on the other person... so i turned it around so it is not so much good on me... just to balance it out... it'll make her feel better. So i told her, maybe in differrent words but it means this... i'd tell her if i knew the answer to it, but honestly, i don't & i guess that's why God created frens.

Wat i meant about the creation of frens is that... frens are suppose to fill in the gaps or cracks in the heart, to heal wounds. When the wounds get better, the frens will stay on the sideline and be ready to attend to any future bruise or cuts... As frens, we stay on the sideline so we see the bigger picture. But those in the playing field, are more than frens, they tend to sometimes lose focus on the surrounding and concentrate too much on getting better at their game. This is when they inflict pain on others in the field... when they keep running across the field leaving the others behind, they'd get too far to see and take for granted that the rest will be OK and will catch up later. In the palying field, there are many type of players, some are very good team players while some may just be self-fulfilling jerks at times.. but as a team they get along... coz some can tolerate more than the others... and all these characters make up the balance of the team to make it a good team. As a player, u always want to be with a good team.. when other teams offer u better money, u wudn't want to go coz u luv ur team and u've been theru so much together.

Money is important, but when u hv the money to live comfortably, more money is not of much importance anymore... u just want to be belong.