A day out @ BTS

Went to BTS with my bro to meet H & hubby there... we were supposed to hv lunch... then my bro, as usual took his own sweet time getting ready. And when people are waiting for me... i don't like making them wait especially when i know they're not the waiting type. I was already in a bad mood. There was a miscommunication with H.. i was kind of mad for a while coz she didn't bother to reply my smses which caused the miscommunication and made us even more late! But with H, i cn never be mad for long... coz i know her too well to not undersand her.

It went ok... my bro & H's hubby talked about the camera... my bro trying to learn a few things from him.. i wasn't interested so i ignored them. H is not in a good mood... so i know better to not talk too much... must have some issues on the way there. I don't want to ask.. coz i know, she'll tell when she feels like it. She'll feel better in a while.. always does :)


I used to think... when a fren has a problem, she needs to tell it all to a fren & leave nothing behind. Now i know, it's better to keep some things to oneself. It doesn't mean she doesn't trust me as a fren... she meant well in her keeping things from me. And i don't have to know everything in order to be a good fren... watever is appropriate is enuf. Being a good fren doesn't mean saying the right things.. it's about being able to shut up & smile the appropriate smile. Sometimes, silent presence is quite enuff.