Late nights & Girl Talk

******* work
I haven't had much sleep the last 4 days... was in bed at 4am & out of it at 9am for FOUR days! Business has been bz like hell... i'm the only one in charge (since the others r on holiday for CNY) ... with 1 new staff to assist me & 1 other new staff to trouble me by not coming to work these past 3 days. Aku punya la layan dgn baik.. naik kepala. Kalau aku yg berkuasa... dr semlm lg aku nk jd D.Trump & ckp "u're fired!". sib baik aku cool je... bg can sampai manager ku blk keje esok.

******* late again last night

I mentioned yesterday i was going out after work last night. 11.30 we got to Mamak near T's house. R said, can't stay out too long she's got to work tomorrow. As we malays say it... sembang tak hengat dunia! We didn't notice the time until it was 1.40am! 2 hours of quality conversation... current issues, beauty, hair, guys, sex, gossip & the always favourite we-had-fun-in-school stories. T said we're like the 4 girls in sex & D city though i don't know which one of us is which in the series & we don't go around having sex trying to find the love of our life (i guess sex is a factor but i won't go around trying all the men before i decide one of them is my soulmate). UNlike those S&C girls... we were LOUD! the whole mamak can hear us laugh our hearts out. We were having so much fun, we were in our own world... we didn't notice until later... when we were walking to the car & some guys were repeating what we were laughing about just before we left the table. Those 3 girls ignored them... but i decided to be nice & smile ;).

The talk?

Halal issue... it was fun hearing T & R debating on it. We were talking of alcohol & drugs used in food. I did get some interesting facts... they had cocaine in coke before 1940. Coke are produced locally based on each country's food & drugs law... so the coke taste different. Malaysia's law & enforcement in food production is.. well, i don't hear much about it. AND marijuana is used in nasi kandar (or was it beriani?) that makes it addictive. The use of black magic in the malay community... all the tangkal & pelaris (heard people mixing snake's parts in their soup? it's true). R said we can never be sure anyway... we can't go into every kitchen of every eatery just to check on their ingredients (as if we'd know everything in the kitchen!). When in doubt, don't eat. I seldom have doubts. M mentioned rum in choc cakes. Well i ate some before & i know tiramisu contains liquor too. But we've been eating tiramisu for a long time and we're still consuming it. No fatwas or laws to state that tiramisu's HARAM. We didn't really agree or disagree... we're just stating all the opinions. If tiramisu is haram... how about nasi kandar? There are so many things we don't have answers to. We never conclude this issue. And yes, we still eat tiramisu & we're avoiding nasi kandar (avoiding rice).

P0RN?.... I don't know how this topic came up. But i think we were talking about current issues & how the technology has developed but the mentality of our people developing too slow, contrtibuting to crimes & abuse. M asked T when was the 1st time she saw one.. T said she was 9 (funny story included in answer) & she didn't know what it was all about until Science Class 5 years later. M told her story of her 1st time when she was 8... she thought it was a cartoon since the title was like one. She was curious as to why the couple had to wrestle on a table... pulling clothes off each other. HAHAHA! M is really funny, never fail to make us laugh.
Me? I didn't remember the 1st time i watched. I think when i was 8 or 9 but it wasn't real p0rn... just a sx scene frm Basic instinct or Fatal attraction. Didn't understand either. But i was curious, i read all those novels my mom had... didn't help much since it's more on love & not the art (?) of love-making. And there are some lil girls talk in the school's changing room after PE or swimming class (why is it always in the changing room?). I don't know when i really learn of it but it's from the ability to read between the lines, observing people, watching TV but most of it was from reading. I love reading (not textbooks)... i read from every section of the school library (it's an international school, we hv a big library) so i know lil facts about lot of things. it took me a few years to understand. It was actually a slow process so i really understood what it was. It wasn't just a process, wasn't just an act.. it was something else.


Guys & relationship... we were discussing about the EXes we had. R & M are still good frens with their Exes (& they have about 5 each). T never call her ex after breaking up. I just have a few smses after the break-up then it's history. R used to to change boyfrens every 3-4months. Never asked why but i think she didn't find what she wants in a guy. When she told me it was love at 1st sight (i believe in it) with P, the mat salleh man in uniform... i was reallyy surprised. And it's been 2-3 years.. the longest realtionship. She found what she was looking for. from the pics she showed me, he seemed a very nice & calm guy. He'll be coming here soon... can't wait. T still with Mi since 4/5 years ago. M is with Mg... M's chinese & Mg's Indian... this made her most hated by chinese girls in uni. She's cool with it. It's who she is. She didn't know how to speak any chinese until form 6 (she had to learn coz that's the only language they speak), she speaks perfect malay (even better than me) & English. She has an Indian bf. She's truly Malaysian or what the M Haters Club call her : 'budak-cina-melayu-india' a.k.a. 'cina murtad'.

We talked about a lot of other things but it'd be ages before i can finish with this entry. Our favourite topic of all time is... school days. Now, we had never say "we should have done that in school" We have done EVERYTHING we'd want to do in school... good & bad. The last 2 years of school was never boring. We're actually the finalist for the Female Ponteng Award but the teachers didn't want us out of that school so we weren't mentioned in the nomination. But we hv our own records we could boast of (hahaha)

Latest time to turn up in school :
1. M at 10.30 am
2. R & T at 9am
I've always been early coz my mum's a teacher & she made sure her kids got to school in time... but somehow i managed to be late on few occassions.


Shortest time to ever spent in school
1. Me! .. 1 hour. Went at 7.30 & went home at 8.30
2. R,T&M... 3 hours. went at 7.30am & went to my house at 10.30 am.


Best Ponteng...
We went to Sunway Lagoon and we had the place to ourselves since nobody goes there on a school day. The best time we had. 8 of us.